Monday, July 19, 2010

What is love?



It involves relationships.

Giving and receiving.

Why are they important?

I had a conversation just now with my friend about this--

Me

why don't you do relationships? just curious

2:01pmHim

ummm well I just enjoy the company of others :):)

what else is there to do

2:02pmMe

hahahahaha

2:02pmHim

I mean tell me why I should have a relationship

lets have a debate hahahaha

2:03pmMe

haha

okay well i think relationships can allow for stability. they can give anyone a sense of faithfulness and what it means to trust. relationships give value to what it really means to love and commit. it's the true definition of spirituality, because the love given is also received, like a cycle. it's reliable and accepting. open to flaws and ready to forgive. relationships create understanding with how people work and how you yourself functions also. they're good because you can practice loving- the most important thing there is, really.

2:07pmHim

I need a girlfreind



Is it a girlfriend that he needs?

Does God take the form of lovers?

Is that a gift he bestows upon us to learn somehow, someway love and what it's really made of?


I was thinking this morning about myself, and came up with this poem--


Given the opportunity

To sit and contemplate

As the birds chirp

And the wind blows.

I’ve noticed that the life that surrounds me isn’t so complicated.

Within this messy head of mine,

Amongst the scattered thoughts

And conflicting feelings,

Is a gateway, a sweeper.

A place to cleanse the bad and rejuvenate the good.

And a door to open a virgin, baptized, forgiven, and prepared to live life as it is:

Unguarded,

Undefined.

Just in sync and in tune.


May sound like some kumbaya hoopla, but it came to me.